an SantaFeJack :I have seen Ben in a Bi video , I wish I had the link , I cant find it now . He is so hot . I have drooled over him for many years , he reminds me of a Air Force guy next door when I was young , in my teens . He was blonde and looked just like Ben . I used to jack off thinking about him so much . I wanted him to come on to me , but it never happened .